Do you fall in love with people who need to be rescued and spend most of your energy rescuing them? Do you fall in love with the potential of a person and how you can ‘fix them’ rather than what they are right now? Do you continue to fall for the same type who doesn’t treat you well? Do you put other peoples needs consistently before you own needs so much so that you can’t be happy unless everyone around you is? Do you fall for the emotionally unavailable, off limits person who can never give you what you want? Do you consistently fall for people who are married or in monogomous relationships with someone else? Do you need the challenge and the drama? Do you brush off the nice guy/girl?
Do you feel like you’re emotionally ‘drowning’ in relationships? Do you always choose the ‘bad guy/bad girl’ over the genuine person who adores you? Does your relationship anxiety drown the other person or scare them away? Do you not believe your partner when they tell you they find you beautiful?
Seeing a therapist can help you work on breaking these destructive relationship patterns so that you can open yourself up to fulfilling sex and enriching relationships. It takes guts to see a trained therapist, but you are worth investing the time into yourself to break these patterns and enjoy new relationships. Get in touch with me today..