It’s time to bust another sexual myth! Here’s the myth:Women with high sex drives are the minority. I hear this myth over and over again! The myth that men are highly sexual and women are more interested in love and affection can lead to all sorts of confusions and disagreements. It’s been used throughout history to control female sexuality and to keep the sexes in their place!
A recent study of almost a thousand women found that well over half of them could be classified as “highly sexual.” They were interviewed for sex drive, sexual communication, sexual adventurism, sexual fantasies and thoughts, sexual esteem, body image, reputation concerns, and attitudes toward all of the following: casual sex, sexually explicit material, masturbation, and sexy clothing..
So women with high sex drives who are very interested in sex for sex’s sake are much more common than the stereotype would have you believe. Liberating ourselves from these sexual myths about how the sexes are supposed to behave is so important.
Apparently those Scots in their kilts with their genitals flying free were onto a good thing! Wearing kilts traditionally (without underwear) in the cold, rugged Scottish highlands is the perfect “physiological scrotal environment” to make strong sperm, according to Dutch researcher, Erwin Kompanje.
any sense, when the scrotum is hanging free. In tight trousers it cannot work. In a naked man, or a man wearing a kilt, it can and will.”
It wasn’t until 2009, that researchers in France -Dr. Odile Buisson and Dr. Pierre Foldès did the worlds first complete 3-D sonography of the stimulated clitoris. It says a lot about how we view the clitoris, that they couldn’t get any funding, and had to self fund their research for three years!
He too was amazed by how little research has been done over the years into the clitoris, when he found thousands of studies into the penis.
t realize there was a second set of labia on the inside, since you couldn’t see them. What’s even funnier is that I thought urine came out of the clitoris…When you’re standing up, all you see from the front is hair. Between your legs there are two soft, cushiony things, also covered with hair, which press together when you’re standing, so you can’t see what’s inside. They separate when you sit down and they’re very red and quite fleshy on the inside. In the upper part, between the outer labia, there’s a fold of skin that, on second thought, looks like a kind of blister. That’s the clitoris.”
sits at a table and reads from her favourite book. Underneath the table out of view of the camera, an “unseen accomplice” tried to bring the woman to orgasm with a vibrator. There was something quite beautiful about the black and white treatment, the reading of the literature and the intimacy of the orgasm. It is a very different treatment of female orgasm that is seen in pornography!
struggles to maintain her focus on the words in front of her! Apparently it was a back massager that was being used, and if you listen carefully, sometimes you can hear the buzzing!
This is a question that I am asked a lot. “She didn’t have “normal” sex!” What is “normal”? How do you measure “normal”? One of my obsessions over the past ten years has been researching the history of sexuality. I am so fascinated by how different eras and cultures have controlled and constructed sexuality, how religions or governments, Doctors or psychologists have told us what is “normal” and what is not, and how this reflects the social and political climate of the time. This is so vastly different throughout different times. From Ancient Greek culture through to Victorian times to now, we have had very different ideas about sex and sexuality and what is “deviant” even down to what we would find attractive in a fellow mate.